Chinese women are beautiful. So are American ones. Actually, all women are beautiful. However,the way to express beauty is quite different due to the disparity of culture and national conditions.
1. Chinese women are more hardworking than American women whether in manual work or brainwork. Chinese women work far more toughly than American women and they show a stronger power of will.
2. Chinese women are more willing to bear the burden of hard work. The American women prefer complaining, while the Chinese ones, especially those women who live in the rural areas, are more contained with few complains when treated unfairly.
3. Chinese women are more tolerant to their husbans compared with their Ameircan counterparts. Few wives in China will divorce with their husbands who have love affairs with other women, while, to American wives, cheating is absolutely intolerant and divorce is the only solution.
4. Chinese women believe more in fate than American women, especially when their husbands cheat on them。On this occasion, they first blame all to their unlucky fate. Comparatively. the Americans first prefer to find a good lawyer ,who can bring them more possession in the divorce, with the slightest idea of complaining their poor destiny.
5. Compared with the American female, Chinese female lay much emphasis on their husbands. However, the Americans, male or female, value their own freedom and happiness most. Female will never love boyfriends more than themselves. In this term, Chinese women are quite opposite--they love their husband far more than themselves. According to a report released last week, China ranks the first in terms of female suicide, however, it is not the first in pure suicide. Just think about the large population of China, you will find the figure even more terrible. Thousands of female in China (most live in rural areas) feel desperate and then commit suicide every year just because their husbands leave them.
6. In the eye of Chinese women, a job means working outside. Oppositely, American female regard housework as important as working outside; sometimes, they think working outside is harder, more valuable to their family.
7. Loving period for Chinese women is shorter than that for the American women.
An American woman can fall in love with a man in their tens and keep such kind of enthusiasm till they get old. While Chinese women can only last from their tens to thirties.
8. Chinese women will face huge pressure from society and family if they haven't got married when they are over twenty. For American women, this kind of pressure is nowhere to find. No matter how old they are, they always have pursuers. Chinese women seldom have pursuers when they get old.
9. Chinese women like making up when they are young, but give up make-up when they get old. American women make up more when they are old.
10. Chinese women adore men, especially those who have a less education background; while American women admire men.
11. Chinese women will devote all to men when they fall in love with them, mentally and phsically. American women love men and at the same time wait for responses.
12. Chinese female have a lower rate of love affairs than Chinese men. Even though i have no statistics, i can guess the gap is more than ten times, especially in the expansive rural areas. It is easy to find a man who has love affairs with other woman, whick is no more strange. However, it is a big event that a woman has a love affair with another man and the bad news runs faster. Finally, it can be a shame on the whole family. This rate in America even out according to statistics.
Although sex discrimination in America still exists and it is a long way for Ameircan female to pursue the equal treatment. Compared with Chinese women, American women indeed do less than their Chinese counterparts for their family and husbands.
中國(guó)女人很美麗,美國(guó)女人也很美麗,天下的女人都是美麗的。但由于中美兩國(guó)文化不同,國(guó)情不同,所以表現(xiàn)的方式亦不同。
1)中國(guó)女人比美國(guó)女人刻苦耐勞。無(wú)論是從事體力勞動(dòng),還是腦力勞動(dòng),中國(guó)女人遠(yuǎn)比美國(guó)女人更能吃苦,具有更堅(jiān)忍的毅力。
2)中國(guó)女人比美國(guó)女人任勞任怨。美國(guó)女人是很愛(ài)抱怨的一群,而中國(guó)女人,特別是鄉(xiāng)下女人,哪怕是受到不公平的對(duì)待常常泰然處之,較少抱怨。
3)中國(guó)女人比美國(guó)女人更具寬容心,特別是對(duì)待丈夫。中國(guó)有多少在外面"包二奶""搞女人"的男人,他們的妻子又有多少為此離婚的呢,比例并不高,而對(duì)于美國(guó)女人來(lái)說(shuō)這是斷然無(wú)法容忍,沒(méi)得商量的事情,只有離婚一途。
4)中國(guó)女人比美國(guó)女人更相信命運(yùn)。特別是在婚姻中遇到了負(fù)心漢,首先怪的是自己命苦,命運(yùn)不好。而美國(guó)女人首先想到的是去找個(gè)好律師,力爭(zhēng)多分些財(cái)產(chǎn),并不會(huì)有自己命不好的想法。
5)中國(guó)女人與美國(guó)女人相比,把男人看的很重。美國(guó)女人與美國(guó)男人一樣都是將個(gè)人的自由與幸福擺在首位,她們愛(ài)男人不會(huì)超過(guò)愛(ài)自己,而中國(guó)女人常常是愛(ài)丈夫超過(guò)了愛(ài)自己。據(jù)上星期剛剛得知的報(bào)道顯示,中國(guó)不是全世界自殺率最高的國(guó)家,卻竟是女性自殺率最高的國(guó)家,考慮到中國(guó)如此龐大的人口數(shù)量,就更是觸目驚心。每年都有成千上萬(wàn)的女性(大部分是農(nóng)村女性)由于丈夫的離去,從而對(duì)生活感到絕望而服毒自殺。
6)中國(guó)女人往往是只將外出工作看做是工作,而不是像美國(guó)女人那樣將在家中專職做家務(wù)亦看做是與外出工作同樣重要的工作,甚至是更辛苦更有價(jià)值對(duì)家庭更大貢獻(xiàn)的工作。
7)中國(guó)女人的戀愛(ài)生命遠(yuǎn)比美國(guó)女人為短。美國(guó)女人可以從十多歲一直熱戀到老,而中國(guó)女人的熱戀時(shí)間往往只限于十多歲到三十出頭的短暫時(shí)間里。
8)中國(guó)女人到了二十多歲不結(jié)婚就會(huì)面臨來(lái)自家庭與社會(huì)的巨大壓力,美國(guó)女人則完全沒(méi)有這種壓力,因?yàn)闊o(wú)論多大年紀(jì),總有追求者在那里,而中國(guó)女人年紀(jì)一旦大了,就很難再有追求者了。
9)中國(guó)女人年輕時(shí)愛(ài)打扮,到老了就不愛(ài)打扮了。美國(guó)年輕女人愛(ài)打扮,但上了年紀(jì)后更加愛(ài)打扮。
10)中國(guó)女人對(duì)男人抱有一種崇拜的心理,特別是教育水準(zhǔn)較低的女性。美國(guó)女人對(duì)男人則是抱著一種欣賞的態(tài)度。
11)中國(guó)女人對(duì)男人是既愛(ài)他,就什么都一股腦的給他,從身體到精神。美國(guó)女人對(duì)男人則是一邊愛(ài)他,一邊看著他如何回報(bào)。
12)中國(guó)女人的婚外情比率遠(yuǎn)比中國(guó)男人的婚外情比率為低,我手頭上沒(méi)有統(tǒng)計(jì)資料,但我估計(jì)恐怕低十倍也不止。特別是在廣大農(nóng)村地區(qū),男人外面有女人的現(xiàn)象隨處可見(jiàn),已是見(jiàn)怪不怪,而女人若是外面有了男人那還了得,"丑事傳千里",甚至成為整個(gè)家族的恥辱。美國(guó)女人的婚外情比率與美國(guó)男人相比,據(jù)統(tǒng)計(jì)數(shù)字顯示大體持平。
雖然美國(guó)社會(huì)中男女不平等的現(xiàn)象還普遍存在,美國(guó)女人在追求男女平等的道路上也還有很長(zhǎng)的路要走,但與中國(guó)女人相比較,中國(guó)女人對(duì)社會(huì)對(duì)家庭對(duì)丈夫的付出確實(shí)要比美國(guó)女人多的太多了。