Steps

1. Wash your hair at least every other day (washing in the morning prevents going out with the grease of last night). A girl loves a boy who smells nice, and cares about his image. Besides, greasy hair is not a good look on anybody, even if they look like Brad Pitt. By taking care of your hair, you at least show that you're interested in your appearance and care enough about yourself to take good care of yourself.

2. Make sure you have good hygiene.

o Brush twice a day, and floss once a day

o Wear deodorant every day. Body odor is not an attractive smell, and nobody around you enjoys it. It's a simple routine that can reap large benefits in your friendships, relationships, and with strangers!

o If your face is clean shaven, shave regularly. Stubble, when it's not intentionally there, promotes a look of unkempt.

o Wash your face every day. This helps to clear up whiteheads/blackheads, as well. However, if you are a teenager, acne is quite normal, and occurs quite often. It will be hard for you to stop getting acne. If you have a severe problem with acne, your regular doctor can most likely refer you to a good dermatologist.

3. Wear a nice cologne. It is truly amazing how it attracts attention. Don't bathe in it, though, or it'll do the opposite of the intention.

4. Be confident in yourself. Girls love guys who are confident, and confidence is also the key to getting ahead in the business world. Unless you believe in yourself, you can't sell yourself, so less people will believe in you. Remember, though, that there is a line between confidence and arrogance. Arrogance is not sexy.

5. Wear nice clothes. The style of clothes that you wear doesn't matter, because you're expressing your personality. Whatever you choose to wear, though, should be clean and ironed (if appropriate). Also do not wear pants that show a lot of boxer. This is not sexy. It is gross to almost all girls. If you are going to wear jeans, make sure they are not too baggy. This does not look good.

6. Be funny! A girl loves a guy who can genuinely make her laugh. If you notice she is being turned off by your sense of humor (which you will be able to tell by her body language) then stop. Give her space.

7. Smile because girls love smiles. It makes them feel beautiful.

Tips

· If a girl does not give you a response, don't take it to heart -- remain cool and think of your future with a new girl.

· Different time frames for hair-washing apply to different people. If your hair is dirty and greasy between times when you wash it, make it a habit to wash it more often. Likewise, if you don't need to wash your hair every other day, don't feel like you have to anyway.

· Gain confidence in yourself by doing things like exercise, running a half marathon, building something, or playing an instrument. These things will give you confidence and it will show and attract others to you.

· If you're trying to get a girlfriend talk to them. Say "hi" and start a conversation. She will most likely talk to you if you start a conversation.

· Girls like boys that pay attention to everybody, not just your clique.

· Look at the girl in that other clique. The one you sit next to in Science. She might just be cool and she probably likes you too.

· Walk past her slowly but not too slow or she will think you have problems.

· A small touch on the arm, shoulder, or head can give a girl chills if she likes you. You definitely notice the attention.

· Remember to check out the whole grade. There are some girls out there that are awesome and just aren't so popular. They would love some attention. And they don't expect so much so you can be more relaxed.

· Being aloof at the appropriate times can work wonders. Don't bathe a girl in attention - this is not sexy and you'll probably suffocate her. Being laid back will show everyone that you value yourself and that is sexy.

Warnings

· Realize that being truly sexy to someone often has little to do with how you look or smell. Being truly sexy comes through love and a relationship, which should never be based on physical characteristics.

· There is a difference between confidence and arrogance. Girls hate arrogance

· Both girls and guy - nobody feels comfortable with a partner who is also uncomfortable. The girl will think it's her fault, when it's not.

· Bragging about your looks is not hot. Paris Hilton is not hot because she brags about her looks but Jennifer Lopez is hot because she doesn't.

· Girls tend to stick together so don't be mean to one girl and expect another girl to love you.

· A lot of this "girls do and girls don't" stuff is generally good, but remember that every girl is going to be different.

Things You'll Need

· Shampoo

· Comb

· Deodorant

· Toothbrush

· Floss

· Soap

· Niceness

· A smile

· clean clothes

· confidence

· nice pair of denim

步驟

1，至少要每隔一天洗一次頭發（早上洗頭可以避免帶著昨晚的油脂出門）。女孩喜歡身上氣味不錯的男孩子，而且挺在乎他的形象。況且，油頭在任何人身上都不好看，即使他們長得像布拉德皮特。護理好你的頭發至少表明了你在乎你的外形，而且花了不少心思照顧好自己。

2，一定要做好個人衛生

一天刷牙兩次，用牙線潔牙一次。

每天涂抹香水。因為體味不是好聞的氣味，你周圍的人是不會喜歡的。這是一個簡單的步驟，能幫你在和朋友、親戚以及陌生人打交道時帶來不少好處。

如果你的臉是刮得比較干凈的，那么要定期刮。不是刻意留下的胡渣會給人帶來一種不整潔的印象。

每天洗臉。這也會幫助去除"白頭"或者"黑頭"。當然，如果你是十幾歲的男孩，頻發青春痘是非常正常的。那個年紀停長痘痘很困難。如果你的青春痘很嚴重，你的私人醫生很可能會讓你咨詢皮膚科專家。

3，身上噴灑一些好的古龍水。這很能吸引別人的注意。不過切忌噴灑過多，那樣會起到相反的效果。

4，要充滿自信。女孩喜歡自信的男人，而且自信也是在商場中拼搏的關鍵。除非做到相信自己，不然你就不能推銷自己，那樣相信你的人會更少。但是，請記住，自信和自負是有界限的。自負并不性感。

5，穿好一點。你穿什么款式無所謂，因為你有你的個性。然而你穿的衣服必須是干凈的、熨燙過的（如果合適的話）。不要穿很皺的褲子，這也不性感，基本上女生都會討厭。如果你要穿牛仔褲，不要穿那種口袋太多的，那也不好看。

6，搞笑一點！女孩喜歡能真正逗樂她們的男人。如果你發覺她對你的幽默感不感冒（你可以從她的肢體語言中察覺），那么見好就收。給她足夠空間。

7，微笑。因為女孩喜歡看到微笑，那會讓她們覺得自己很漂亮。

技巧

如果某一個女孩不給你答復，不要放在心上——保持冷靜，想想自己和另一個女孩的未來。

不同的人適用不同的洗頭頻率。假如你的頭發在前后兩次洗頭中間這段時間又臟又油的話，養成一個更勤洗頭的習慣。類似，如果你覺得不需要每隔一天洗次頭，那就不需要必須那樣做了。

通過進行運動來獲取信心。比如跑半個馬拉松啦、建些東西啦或者彈奏樂器等。這些東西會帶給你信心，也會展示自己而吸引到別人的關注。

如果想找女朋友，就找她們說話。以打招呼來引起一場談話。如果你先說，她基本上會予以配合。

女孩喜歡關注所有人而不是僅限于他的死黨的男人。

關注一下其他圈子里的女孩。例如坐在你旁邊的理工科女生，她們只是看起來很冷酷，沒準還挺喜歡你的。

走過她身旁的時候要慢一點，但不要太慢，不然她會以為你有病。

如果她喜歡你，輕輕地碰觸她的胳膊、肩膀或者頭會取悅她。這一點你肯定注意到了。

記得搜索整個年級的女生。有一些不是很顯眼的女生其實非常不錯。她們也許需要一些關注，但不會期待太多。所以你追起來更輕松。

在適當的時候顯得超然能創造奇跡。不要沉浸于關注一個女生——那樣并不性感而且你可能會讓她感到窒息。隨和一些會告訴別人你很看重自己，這是性感。

警告

要意識到：對某些人來說，真正的性感和你看起來或聞起來怎樣沒多大關系。真正的性感來自愛和友誼，這些是不能建立在外在的東西上的。

自信和自負是不同的。女孩討厭自負的人。

不管男孩女孩——和一個不舒服的人在一起沒人會感到舒服。女孩會認為是她的錯，盡管有時并不盡然。

炫耀自己的長相并不性感。因為炫耀自己的長相，帕麗斯.希爾頓并不性感，但珍妮弗.洛佩茲很性感因為她不那樣做。

女孩們喜歡黏在一起，因此不要既輕薄一個而又期待著另一個。

大體上很多的這種“女人做什么和不做什么”是正確的，但是記住每個女人都有所不同。

你需要的東西

香波

梳子

香水

牙刷

牙線

肥皂

美好

微笑

干凈衣服

自信

精品牛仔褲